Prep the Milk: Heat the whole milk in a deep pot over low heat until it reaches a gentle simmer.
Toast the Binder: In a separate large skillet, heat butter and oil. Add cumin seeds. Once they sizzle, stir in the chickpea flour and sauté on low until aromatic and golden.
Build the Flavor: Add onions and sauté until translucent. Stir in tomatoes, salt, turmeric, chili powder, coriander powder, and peppers. Add a splash of hot water and cook until the tomatoes soften.
Wilt the Spinach: Add the chopped spinach to the skillet. Cover with a lid for 3–5 minutes to let it steam and wilt in its own juices.
Curdle the Cheese: Turn off the milk heat. Wait 2 minutes, then slowly pour in the vinegar-water mixture. Stir gently in one direction until the milk separates into white curds and green whey.
The Scramble: Use a slotted spoon to lift the hot, fresh cheese curds directly from the pot into the spinach skillet.
The Creamy Finish: Turn the skillet heat back to medium. Pour in 1/2 cup of milk to create a "semi-liquid" texture.
Final Aromatics: Fold in the julienned ginger, garam masala, crushed fenugreek leaves, and cilantro. Serve immediately with toasted bread or flatbread.